Realizing your new boyfriend is just a few years younger than your father is a harsh reality.Remind yourself what ignited this initial attraction and focus on that.Then again, I know that while I am in fantastic shape now, the law of gravity will catch up with me long before him. For every rule (date someone your own age), there's an exception (a May-December romance that's lasted for years).Yes, he could wake up one day, decide that being with an older man doesn't work for him and leave you.
She has got her own life including her own career, her own apartment, her own friends and her own money.
He could also choose to stay (and you could grow in similar ways and find more common ground) or leave for reasons completely unrelated to age. You have to make the best decision you can with the information and feelings you have at the time.
Given the focus on age, it's not strange at all that you have conflicted feelings.
You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.
While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.