They can keep you posted on what they see and hear about this new relationship, as it's never fun to be the last to know.
Keeping your thoughts limited to this tightly knit circle will also prevent you from blabbering your opinion about the new couple to everyone.
If it’s never happened to you, let me first say you’re lucky and then let me say that it absolutely sucks.
Let's break this situation down and count all your mistakes: 1) NEVER break up with someone unless you mean it. If you thought that the "breakup" would only be temporary, then that's your biggest mistake. Your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, NOT YOU! Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger. I felt like a naïve chump who was the subject of their laughter. If you find yourself in this situation, here are some tips on how to handle it and how to keep from going insane: 1. Plus, when the relationship ends, the only thing people will remember is how you reacted. DO NOT make a scene and get into a girl fight with the girl. You don't' have to be overly friendly to your ex and your friend. We had gotten together a few times and I had told her things -- personal things about my ex and our relationship, why I was getting divorced, etc. What they are doing is really uncool and unacceptable.