The first guy who I had a fling with post college was kind of nerdy, and I'm not, so there was a major lack of common interests there. The second guy asked me out via a note while I was at my job. Then it was revealed that he had a major obsession with Sept. Seriously, like he would talk about it all the time and his guilt for not joining the military after it happened and I didn't know how to respond to that.He ended up eventually dating a girl whose dad is a fire fighter.When Im not talking with someone I'm sad because I think I will never be with someone but then when I find someone and start talking to them I get very excited because I do want a boyfriend and I do want to be happy but I will make myself so upset by the littlest things.If he says he is going to call I will worry the whole time on if he is or if he isn't instead of just waiting to see if he is going to call.
These real life guys weren't working out so I tried online dating.
I'm in my twenty's and have not been in a serious relationship since I was in high school.
I had dated a guy for a year then dated another gentlemen for 2 years but my senior year I broke up with him because I was overwhelmed with my parents divorce and my fathers infidelity.
What’s most important is a thorough understanding of depression (yes, that means do your homework!
) and greater insight into how to take care of both your partner and yourself.