Dating for forty somethings

Clients come to me with these limiting ideas about dating, love and men, and it’s my job to help them turn things around.

In fact, with a myriad of life lessons already under your belt, now is probably the best time to find someone special—someone who is both a loyal companion and a true soul mate. Often, we are our worst enemies when it comes to having a healthy self-image and a positive vision for our life. A healthy lifestyle and a positive mindset are a prerequisite for relationship success. Many singles put their lives on hold until they meet “the one.” Don’t wait to take that special trip or try out a new restaurant. ” If you always wanted to take that mountain climbing class, do it. If your ideal man is George Clooney without the commitment issues, it is time to revise your list. It is easier for your mind to “create pictures” of how you want your love life unfold.

Most of all, it seems that every woman, regardless of age, despises the indoors.

I say this because, according to their profiles, every spare moment is devoted to running, skiing, hiking, climbing, rafting, unicycling, spelunking, parachuting into triathlons, and engaging in a variety of other calorie-burning gerunds.

How women present themselves is a topic about which I can speak more knowledgeably.

First, it would appear that, upon reaching a certain age, women in the Boston area are required to sign up for yoga. Many grown women for some reason also make a point of referring to themselves as “girls,” sometimes even working this word into their user names.