for all intents and purposes, it sounds like your marriage is over. Just my emotions and feelings were still with her and not able to date. So soon after Divorce, alone still be married by law.
but if you start dating someone in your position, there is the risk/chance that you'd get back with the ex. Yes is just a piece of paper, but to me was more than that.
By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.
But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.
Even if your husband has carried on numerous affairs during your marriage, he will not think that you are justified in seeing someone new at this time.
All he will focus on is that he has been wronged and will want to seek justice anyway he can.
Believe me, he will likely react to the fact that you are dating by making your life hell during the divorce process.
He may seek revenge to compensate for the anger, hurt, and embarrassment that he feels you have caused him.
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